Around fifteen percent of married women have affairs. That is around 45 million American women who would be interested in a ‘bit on the side’. Have you ever met a married woman who you have considered dating? Here are some of the pros and cons of dating married women.
Many men claim that the best sex they have ever had was with a married woman. If a woman is interested in having an affair it is usually because she wants sex or better sex than she is currently getting. She isn’t likely to be looking for love or romance. A married woman having an affair is only committed to the affair in a sexual way and not in an emotional way, which will usually result in great sex!
There is a certain amount of excitement when having an affair due to the secrecy element. When you meet the woman you will do so in a place where you won’t be seen. You might meet at a motel during your lunch break or even sneak away for a naughty weekend. The excitement of meeting in secret and not getting caught will add excitement to the relationship.
Another advantage is that you don’t need to worry about the relationship getting too serious. Dating single women can often result in the woman wanting something more from the relationship than the man does. When you are dating married women, the woman is already committed to her husband and will not expect you to get involved in the more serious details of her life.
A relationship with a married woman is often less expensive than dating a single woman. When you are dating a single woman you will take her out to nice restaurants or to see a movie. You will most likely buy her gifts and jewelry. You wouldn’t buy a married woman jewelry or take her to a restaurant because her husband may find out about the affair.
The last advantage to dating married women is that many other women will find you more attractive. You will become the mysterious man that must have something great about him if a married woman is willing to risk her marriage for you.
Now, let’s take a look at some of the cons of dating married women.
Firstly, her husband may find out about the affair. If her husband discovers that his wife is having an affair, anything can happen. His reaction may be mild and he may just insist that the affair end. He may react more harshly and insist on a divorce because of her infidelity. In some cases, men have even been known to become violent with their wife or the man she is having an affair with.
Another downside to dating married women is that you may actually fall in love with the woman. You may find that you want a more meaningful relationship with her but she may not be willing to sacrifice her marriage for you. You could end up heartbroken for a woman that you cannot have.
Lastly, you need to consider the moral aspect of having an affair. If you fall in love with this woman and she does leave her family for you, you could be breaking up her family. Even though the affair may start off casual, it can become more serious which can have disastrous effects on her family, in particular her children if she has some.
Don’t rush into dating married women, you really need to weigh up the pros and the cons and decide if this is really what you want to do.